This post is mirroring a few things I have read and seen lately that have me thinking about how "we" (culture) are becoming so philosophical about who we are, we have forgotten that what we "do" is important.
If it acts like a duck, walks like a duck, and sounds like a duck, it's a duck. It doesn't matter if the duck thinks it's a dog, it's still a duck.
Here is something that rings true, authenticity is doing what you promise, not "being who you are".
That's because 'being' is too abstract. The statements might go something like this, "that's just not who I am, if it works for you that is fine but it just isn't who I am" and then, "I need to be who I am but I won't do anything I am not supposed to do" yet the actions after this statement proved this person untrustworthy to the people who heard it.
You see, "being" is too internal and internal vision is always blurry.
Doing, on the other hand, is an act that can be seen by all.
I know you have heard this, "actions speak louder than words".
I think this is worth a moment of thought.....
Are we telling the world, our family, our friends, our business, we are "something" and then our actions don't back it up?
And yes there are those of us who "put on an act" so we don't really know who they are for a while. But, eventually time will reveal because pretending is hard to maintain. We all live like this at times for all kind of reasons and I will be the first to say I am not perfect. This is where the next question becomes very important:
Do you have anyone in your life who helps bring your "internal vision into focus" and helps you align your actions?
For me, I need to stop a moment and say thank you to some of the people who have helped me in this area over the years; my wife, my parents, Erwin Mcmanus, Ed Litton, Jon Vesely, Seth Godin, Max Lucado, Karl Horstmann, Todd Burkhalter and countless friends who speak truth at a moment when I need it. And then there is the ultimate "life OPTICIAN" who brings everything into focus, God. I can never recommend to you enough how the words in the Bible can revolutionize your actions and align your heart.
Don't take my word for it.....try it :-)...this world is not your home, so don't make yourselves cozy in it. Don't indulge your ego at the expense of your soul. Live an exemplary life.... so that your ACTIONS will refute prejudices. 2 Peter 2:11 (The Message)